Aasai

Love for a Parent: Unchanging and Unconditional

You don’t love your parent because they are perfect—you love them because they are your parent. Parents are a part of who we are, and that connection cannot be changed, no matter their actions or flaws.

Sometimes, parents can hurt us deeply with their decisions. Some might neglect us, others may make poor choices, or even fail to meet the expectations we have of them. But the truth remains: you can’t exchange your parent for another. They are unique and irreplaceable in your life, even when they fall short.

I have experienced this myself. My mum treated me with so much love and care, always making me feel special. My dad, on the other hand, loved me genuinely too, but his actions hurt me—he got involved with other women and spent little time with us. Still, he remains my dad. Despite his flaws, I love him unconditionally and work hard to make him happy.

Loving your parents doesn’t mean you agree with all they do. It means you acknowledge their role in your life and cherish the bond you share. You may not be able to change their actions, but you can choose to love them from your heart.

Hating a parent only adds pain to your heart. Love them genuinely, even when it’s hard, because they are the reason you exist. Love is not about perfection—it’s about acceptance and understanding.